He called his family back in the United States and told them about this new girl he met. How he spontaneously married her on a US base, they were devastated. Why her? She was Hispanic and didn't speak any English. She didn't follow the typical standards for a wife of the family he came from. But... they were married and his mother and father ordered they come to the United States immediately where life for their child would be best. However the day before they were to go my father was told he needed to stay one more week on the base and told his mother he would be sending his wife by herself. Not only did she not speak English but she was traveling many miles from the family she has always known to one she knows nothing about.
She boarded the plane and set off for her new journey to the United States, Columbus, Ohio to be specific. She met my grandmother who greeted her with love and kindness despite separate opinions she may have.
Days later her husband came back and they both set off their new lives together. Turns out he got kicked out of the military for drugs and reckless behavior. Of course no one told my mom because she didn't speak English. She had no idea of his drug abuse. In Panama he proved himself to be a respectable, young, good looking man. He got three jobs to help support the family and pay for their new apartment while my mother stayed home pregnant with me.
No one knows if he didn't like the sight of my pregnant mother or felt overwhelmed with working because that is when his lies began.
He was gone for two, three days at a time and she had no idea where he went. He often times went to the apartment next door with a bunch of guys who smoked and were covered in tattoos. On one occasion he invited them all over to his apartment and they all sat around the couch and talked while watching the television ordering my mother for beer and food. By the time she catered to all their needs my father asked her to join them. At which point a man offered her a joint.
Now if that don't piss you off a man offering a pregnant woman weed, then I don't know what.
My father was so high off his ass he didn't realize what happened. But I must give him credit for pulling through and yelling at the guy. But it took my mom's rather large voice to kick them out.
This type of thing happened many times during her pregnancy. But the cheating didn't begin till after.
But life for them was paradise. They partied. They went to the beach and eventually he popped the question. Of course she said yes. He adored her, did whatever she wanted. He even wanted to take her back to the United States and have a family. And Panamanian women going to the USA was unheard of, especially the poor country girls.
I hope to get back to pre pregnancy weight of 120. I'm 134 in the picture. Hopefully soon, for now its all Isaiah.
Me and Isaiah!
Isaiah after his bath!
Isaiah and his daddy sleeping =]
So I have been a little bored lately, seeing as how I'm pregnant and finished my freshman year and quit my job for my son I have a lot of time while my dear boyfriend is out working. So because I love that boy sooo damn much I made a banner.... baby te quiero (I know a cheap way to show it haha). Feel free to use if you decide to come across here and use it.
Their is the banner. And because I used to be such a myspace addict, I created a contact box to match it.
As well as a cute repeating heart background to match!
Hopefully you like it. I like to do a lot of layout type stuff for myspace and so I thought maybe I might get back into it. Not sure though. I'm a former xanga addict, I as well have TONS of sites I used to go on and create images, I just don't remember them all. =P
